Okay, if you say so. Though, uh, I know we don't actually know each other but if you need to talk, I'm here! Really!

Well, my point is that if they did it anonymously, they didn't feel comfortable enough to say it when you'd know who they were, and this post doesn't really exude calm understanding or anything, so they're probably still not going to want to say it to your face. That's why I suggested guilttripping.