bentflame ([personal profile] bentflame) wrote2011-06-04 08:55 pm

{FORWARD-DATED} to after both her ongoing RLs

I've been strangely social lately. I've had people over, I've gone to visit others, and I've apparently been invited to join in on some sort of movie night. Not only would this not have happened three years ago-- before I joined the community-- I don't think it would even have happened one year ago.

I haven't really changed that much, have I? I don't think I have.

[identity profile] sotobas-lot.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
Socializing more seems like a natural consequence of joining a community like this. There isn't any real point to it besides forcing people to talk to each other, after all.

[identity profile] peoplesprincess.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
It's easy to not be that social, though.
Edited 2011-06-05 01:02 (UTC)

[identity profile] sotobas-lot.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
Wouldn't it be more strange if you'd talked to people on here for three years without ever meeting them offline?

[identity profile] peoplesprincess.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
Not necessarily. I suppose it would depend on our relationships.

[identity profile] sotobas-lot.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
Still, not doing more than this thing's required posting after so long would be like never doing anything with your classmates outside of school. Even the shy or problematic kids get caught up in a few things like walking home together or meeting in town and deciding to kill time or ride bikes together.

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deathfangirl: (alive - caress fr0m kanaya)

[personal profile] deathfangirl 2011-06-05 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
is it bad if y0u have changed?
i mean if y0u like wh0 y0u are

[identity profile] peoplesprincess.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know. It's just weird to think about.
deathfangirl: (r0b0t - waiting)

[personal profile] deathfangirl 2011-06-05 07:44 pm (UTC)(link)
i kn0w h0w y0u feel
i think
deathfangirl: (alive - turned away)

[personal profile] deathfangirl 2011-06-06 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
well i have g0ne thr0ugh a l0t 0f changes lately
im n0t sure h0w i feel ab0ut them m0st 0f the time

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[identity profile] killerbaseball.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 08:41 am (UTC)(link)
Hmm... How old are you, if I may ask?

[identity profile] peoplesprincess.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 03:07 pm (UTC)(link)
I'll be eighteen in a few months.

[identity profile] killerbaseball.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 03:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmm. It is not uncommon for young people to become more outgoing as they age.

[identity profile] peoplesprincess.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 07:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know if "outgoing" is the right word.

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timey_wimey: (i'm clueless)

[personal profile] timey_wimey 2011-06-05 12:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Is it so bad if you have?

[identity profile] peoplesprincess.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 03:07 pm (UTC)(link)
It depends on the nature of the change.
timey_wimey: (I'll just get my coat.)

[personal profile] timey_wimey 2011-06-07 11:19 am (UTC)(link)
This one doesn't seem so bad if you ask me.

[identity profile] peoplesprincess.livejournal.com 2011-06-07 02:19 pm (UTC)(link)
If I really do end up caring about more people, it could just make things complicated.

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[identity profile] ironicnotcynic.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 03:06 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not bad to change as you get older – it's natural.

[identity profile] peoplesprincess.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 03:08 pm (UTC)(link)
As long as I don't lose myself.

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Building alliances can be good!

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They're not really alliances. We don't fight together.

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